Do The Weird; It Works! (Part 1: A New Direction)
Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Many times the guys who come to me, only do so after years of being deeply stuck when it comes to meeting, attracting and enjoying women.
Throughout those years, they have often spent countless hours trying to “figure out” how they are going to get out of their romantic desert and into the land of moist, pink abundance!
What does not to occur to even the brightest of them is how the “solution” to their problem could be the very thing that is SO different than the way they are thinking, it would never even occur to them!
You see, it is usually a) the action or b) way of thinking or c) BOTH that is so far outside what you are used to doing, that this new direction will bring you the results that are way beyond what you are used to GETTING and ENJOYING!
That’s why, when students write me and tell me that what I teach seems “weird” or so different and strange that they can’t possibly imagine talking this way or imagine women enjoying it and getting turned on by it, my answer is always:
“Fantastic! That is exactly why you SHOULD
be doing it! Because what you’ve BEEN
doing clearly HASN’T been working.”
As an illustration, here is an email I received from a student who did exactly what I told him to do on a phone consultation.
He had been stuck being very nervous approaching women and just could NOT get himself to walk up and meet women. He was fine if women were introduced to him, but he could NOT talk to a stranger and was struggling with his “confidence”.
First, I explained to him that he was confusing “performance confidence” with “acceptance confidence”.

Performance confidence is when you have already done something well many times in the past, so you know, based on experience and skill, you will likely do well again.
Acceptance confidence is simply a matter of giving yourself permission to try something new, even and especially when you don”t know what will happen! It”s admitting you don”t know, being ok with that, and giving things a fun and fair try anyway.
Doesn’t that make good sense?
Then meet me back here tomorrow when I show you the absolutely, totally whacked-out drill I gave him to do. When you see it, you’ll call me a Goddamned lunatic, but this guy wasn’t complaining when he saw the results.
Til then, peace and piece,
RJ
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