Do The Weird; It Works! (Part 1: A New Direction)

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 20th, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Many times the guys who come to me, only do so after years of being deeply stuck when it comes to meeting, attracting and enjoying women.

Throughout those years, they have often spent countless hours trying to “figure out” how they are going to get out of their romantic desert and into the land of moist, pink abundance!

What does not to occur to even the brightest of them is how the “solution” to their problem could be the very thing that is SO different than the way they are thinking, it would never even occur to them!

You see, it is usually a) the action or b) way of thinking or c) BOTH that is so far outside what you are used to doing, that this new direction will bring you the results that are way beyond what you are used to GETTING and ENJOYING!

That’s why, when students write me and tell me that what I teach seems “weird” or so different and strange that they can’t possibly imagine talking this way or imagine women enjoying it and getting turned on by it, my answer is always:

“Fantastic! That is exactly why you SHOULD
be doing it! Because what you’ve BEEN
doing clearly HASN’T been working.”

As an illustration, here is an email I received from a student who did exactly what I told him to do on a phone consultation.

He had been stuck being very nervous approaching women and just could NOT get himself to walk up and meet women. He was fine if women were introduced to him, but he could NOT talk to a stranger and was struggling with his “confidence”.

First, I explained to him that he was confusing “performance confidence” with “acceptance confidence”.

Performance confidence is when you have already done something well many times in the past, so you know, based on experience and skill, you will likely do well again.

Acceptance confidence is simply a matter of giving yourself permission to try something new, even and especially when you don”t know what will happen! It”s admitting you don”t know, being ok with that, and giving things a fun and fair try anyway.

Doesn’t that make good sense?

Then meet me back here tomorrow when I show you the absolutely, totally whacked-out drill I gave him to do.  When you see it, you’ll call me a Goddamned lunatic, but this guy wasn’t complaining when he saw the results.

Til then, peace and piece,

RJ

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Non-Sargy Saturday Afternoon Sit-Around?

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 19th, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

If you’re sitting there today, on Saturday afternoon, trying to get motor-vated to take on the world with all your great knowledge about women, yet finding yourself worried you’ll draw a blank when you’re face-to-face with a woman, this one’s for you.

Could it be coming from within your overall personality?

Meaning: the part of your personality that, up until this moment, has demanded a guarantee and has viewed you as someone who can’t do things unless it’s guaranteed, is the very thing that’s been blocking you?

It is the single, number one biggest systemic barrier for so many smart guys out there.

Once you get rid of that, once you drop that, once you tame that, everything is going to flow more easily for you.

I’m willing to bet this has been part of your overall personality. Up until now, you’ve had a very risk averse personality. You’ve avoided taking risks. You’ve gone for things that are certain. To that extent, it’s really constricted and restricted your personality.

One of the reasons you’ve been stuck up until now is you’ve been aiming at the wrong thing. You’ve been trying to squeeze results through your old personality. That’s a very narrow funnel. It doesn’t matter how much water you pour into a narrow funnel, it’s only going to be able to take so much.

Here’s where doing a little ritual would be useful. When you program in some mischievous shenanigan energy into what you do with women, you’re going to do a lot better.

If you combine willingness to take a risk, even though you don’t know what’s going to happen, with some of that shenanigan, tongue-in-cheek, let’s-go-have-some-fun energy, you’re going to make some huge strides.

This is as much about you expanding your personality in terms of your willingness to step forward even if you’re not, and your system by which you test the boundaries of reality.

Do you talk to yourself in your head, or do you actually go out and try things?

Peace and piece,

RJ

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How To Seduce Religious Women

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 17th, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Seducing religious women is a very interesting topic and my answer is even more so.  So jump in, have a look, and comment below, as always, please:

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Hey, We Talking Tonight Or WHAT?

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 16th, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

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If you’re already in the Coaching Program, you know about tonight’s call and can skip this message.

If not, then this is for YOU…

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Did you know that twice a month, members of the Speed Seduction® Coaching Program get on the phone with me LIVE (as in, right-now, real-time) to get real answers to your top burning question about success with women?

They’re called “Ask Me Anything” Calls.

Bring your #1 question – it could be about seduction in general, or a specific situation you’re in with a woman right now, or something that happened the other day on a Sarge that you’re still trying to figure out.

Just some of the recent topics I’ve helped students with, live, include:

  • How to transform her into your f@@k buddy / FWB
  • Breaking out a rut / diving back in after a long dry spell
  • What to do when you find yourself suddenly at a loss for words when speaking to a woman
  • My latest and greatest specific “how-to” methods for blasting past approach anxiety
  • In-depth questions about things that came up during their real-world experiences mastering the skills
  • And lots more!

The next Ask Me Anything call is TONIGHT (Weds. May 16) at 6:00 PM Pacific.

Now, how can I help YOU?

Getting Me On The Phone
Tonight Is Easy

Here’s how it works:

When you claim your instant access to one of our fine girl-getting products, you can try the Coaching Program for just $1 USD for the first 30 days **.

Once you try it and decide you like it, it’s just $97 USD per month for as long as you choose to remain a member. If you ever decide you don’t need it anymore, just send us an e-mail and we cancel promptly and we stay friends. You have my word on that.

Now, here’s the EXACT step-by-step process – PRINT THIS OUT AND FOLLOW IT:

  • Place your order for Speed Seduction® 3.0, Sexual Aggression Mastery, Nail Your Inner Game, The Power Pack, The 2012 Seminar Footage Collection, or MindFrame Persuasion.
  • When you place the order, you’ll see the Coaching Program added to the secure online order form. If you don’t want the $1 trial, click the X to remove it. Otherwise, leave it; there’s nothing you need to do except complete the order.
  • Within a few minutes of completing your order, you will receive an e-mail from me at orders@seduction.com containing a link to activate your Coaching Program membership by selecting a username and password.It will have the subject line “READ FIRST: Activate Your Speed Seduction® Coaching Membership Now” Do this. (NOTE: This is SEPARATE from the username and password you’ll be prompted to create for the product itself as soon as you finish your order.)
  • Once you have set up your username and password, log into the Coaching Program Members Area.
  • When logged in, click the link to “Coaching Calls” in the navigation at the top.
  • On the Coaching Calls page, click to see the schedule of upcoming calls with dial-in instructions. Here will be the instructions for dialing into tonight’s call.

If you have any question or need for assistance when signing up, just e-mail orders@seduction.com or call (323) 252-1531. If you get the voicemail, leave a message with your number so we can get back to you ASAP.

Now, are we talking tonight, or WHAT?

Let me help you tonight at 6:00 PM Pacific.

Peace, piece, and talk tonight,

RJ

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Getting Her Back To Your Place: Resistance, Logistics, And The Sargy Path to Your Front Door

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 15th, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Going back to your place can be a charged situation for the woman you want to bring home.

First of all, she’s not stupid. It’s going through her mind in that moment: “If I go home with him, he’ll think I want to sleep with him. Am I ready for that? Do I want to do that? With him? Tonight?” (You know what comes next when she starts thinking along these lines.)

So, yeah, you could encounter some resistance.

She could easily use a logistical excuse to avoid going home with you. Or an excuse that starts with “It’s getting late…” Or a combination of the two.

Especially if you live a half hour away. Unless you intend to only get laid within a one-block radius of your house, this is a fact of life.

Therefore, a Sargy thing to do involves having logistics in your favor. It really helps to be close to the location where you’re going to take her, if you can do it.

For example, if it’s the first meeting, you might say, “Why don’t you meet me here? I’ll walk over.” Then walk over to the place locally.

Or if it’s not that close, take a cab.  Don’t tell her you’re taking a cab. Replace “I’ll walk over” with “I’ll see you there.”

The two of you meet at that place. If it seems to be going really well, you make out a little bit, etc., then say, “Would you mind giving me a ride home?”

She gives you a ride home.  BAM!  Now she’s at your house. (Pretty easy, huh?)

Next say, “I have to get up early, but why don’t you come in for just a half an hour, and then I have to see you out the door?” (Time objection countered!)

Here’s the thing about all of this…

Getting Her Back To Your Place
Isn’t As Challenging As You May Think

If she’s really into you, it won’t matter.  It’s a measure of where she’s at.

Logistics aside, if you can see that she’s totally into you, dripping wet and all over you, say, “Why don’t we go somewhere a little quieter where we can relax and focus in?” That’s how you get her to leave with you. Oftentimes it’s that easy.

I definitely think logistics is important, but it isn’t the crucial factor. The crucial factor is what’s going on in her imagination, emotions, flow of feeling in her body, and what she feels she’s on for. That’s what matters.

Let’s hear from you: what have you said and done to get her to go home with you?  Leave a comment below.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Have I Lost My Mind?!?!?!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 11th, 2012

Dear Open-minded Fans,

While I’m very excited to be launching our new course, “Magick, Meditation, and Non-local Influence”, I figured I’d better intelligently address the response many of you ought to be having right now. Which is…

“Magick…Are You F’ing Kidding Me?”

Get the whole story here:

http://www.rjmagick.com/launch/what-the-fck-is-magick/

Be sure to do two things while you’re there:

1) Leave me a comment with your thoughts, and

2) Sign up to get on the launch list – you’ll see things no one else will, plus get a launch discount no one else gets.

Sound good?

Great. See you over there. Again, that link:

http://www.rjmagick.com/launch/what-the-fck-is-magick/

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Two Critical Beliefs About Women

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 10th, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

The way a woman responds to your Sarge can stop you dead in your tracks.  OR, with two beliefs in place, you can take a bold step forward, in a new direction, giving her a new choice.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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The Big Thing I Said I’d Announce Today

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 9th, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In yesterday’s Weekly Update, for those of you who are on our mailing list, I said I’d be in touch today with some news. I asked you to mark this date on your calendar:

Wednesday, June 6, 2012 at 12:00 Noon Pacific

Here’s why.

On that date, at that time, we will be throwing open the doors to our brand-new-for-2012 Magick And Remote Influence course!

Between now and June 6, I will be sharing updates, sneak-peeks, and other great freebies. There will also be a video Q&A session or two where you’ll get to ask me your questions.

More to follow, beginning on Friday when we will unveil our brand new Launch Blog.

Til then.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Supply Your Demand Of HER Curves: Why Lines Aren’t Enough

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 8th, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of my students told me he had to take economic courses three times before he finally got a f@@king clue.

The first two courses, the instructor spent most of their time drawing supply and demand curves on a chalkboard.  Five minutes after handing in the final exam, my student realized he had learned NOTHING he could actually use in the real world.

However, the third instructor spent most of the semester explaining how economic systems work.  The curves were THEN drawn to illustrate the underlying concepts.

My student came of THAT econ course being able to explain how to manage inflation and mortgage rates to stimulate or cool economic growth, how to CREATE the supply and demand those curves illustrate, and even how to reverse a recession.

So it goes, when applying the principles of Speed Seduction® to ful-feel your demand of HER supply curve (he he he).

Will memorized patterns be enough when any of the following happen:

  • You’ve tried three word-for-word patterns already but she’s not responding?
  • Speaking of which, how do you recognize and use her trance words?
  • What if she keeps texting her friends and you need to tell her to put her fucking iPhone in her purse already – and do it in a way that heightens her interest in you?
  • Or, shit from 15 years ago suddenly shows up in your thought process and cockblocks your game, when you’re THIS CLOSE to nailing her?
  • You’re aiming to take her down to the hottest spots in Bow-Chicka-Wow-Wow City, but she’s detouring the ride into the dreary districts of forlorn Friendsville?
  • She’s warm for your form.  That’s not the same as “It’s On“, though.  How do you flip that switch?
  • At the last minute, the switch flips off.  How do you push it up again?

See, I could just tell you patterns to follow, word-for-word.  Sure.  That would be easy and simple for me to do.

But without knowing how to handle those curves, your demand will NOT be supplied.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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3 Truths About Approaching Women

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 4th, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

When I approach people or are just around them, I assume a few things to be true, about people in general as well as women I find attractive:

1. They are human. They have joy, pain, fear, love, hate, hunger, thirst, they sleep, they grow tired, they are in the same gravitational well as I am, if tossed off the same building with me at the same time will fall at the same 32 feet per second, per second.

They came in wearing the same thing and will exit when they stop doing what I will stop doing: BREATHING.

2. It is NOT their responsibility to make ME feel comfortable approaching them. It would be nice but they owe me nothing, not even simple courtesy or common respect (although most often, they will extend that to me).

3. Who they are and where they are is always changing and passing in every moment. It is never stable or fixed, and there is always undercurrents of other energies stirring beneath the evident and at the moment most obvious.

Remember, too:

Despite all of the above, a woman’s current response should rarely be taken as her final answer.  More likely, she’s responding to what’s in her mind and her world AT THAT MOMENT.  That can change… in a moment.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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